We get it, you're financially comfortable, but unless you are a member of the Kardashian family, you do not need that much bling. Don't flash the cash too freely Salaries generally get bigger with age, so there’s a reasonable chance that you earn more than she does.This might mean you both have different lifestyle expectations.
Older men, it seems to me, are like gold dust on the dating scene right now.
From salt-and-pepper George Clooneys to silver-fox Harrison Fords, young women are swooning over smooth older men more than ever.
You know the ones that haven’t had a proper boyfriend in a very long while? Before she starts singing Independent Woman at the top of her voice. And get really agitated if you have the audacity to breathe heavily.
They are hot, witty and headstrong but they just haven’t found the right guy yet, and don’t want to mess around in ‘going nowhere’ relationships until they do.
If you are lucky enough to meet one of these girls and get to the stage of dating her, there’s a few things you are going to need to know. Clingy will not be her style She can call out the AA for the car all on her own, she pays her own rent and she can change light bulbs. She’ll sometimes forget momentarily that she’s involved with someone Try not to take this personally. She knows what she doesn’t want She’s been single this long because she’s done the leg work and she’s probably run out of patience.
She’ll enjoy having you around for sex, holidays and general merriment. On occasion, it might just slip her mind to invite you to her birthday do. If you start to grind on her nerves, your bum will be out of that door. Seeing each other once or twice at week at the beginning is where she’s at She’s been busy for years. So, it’s going to take a bit of adjustment for her to drop everything because you want to cook Thai on a Tuesday. She’s special, and you’ve finally found the courage to ask her out. You should also be respectful in how you approach her. Mention an activity, like going to a movie or a basketball game, and then ask her what she thinks about the idea. “Most young women do not feel good about being pushed.” During the date, focus on her, not yourself. “I think we’re past the days when a strong female would be offended if you opened the door for her,” says California State University of Sacramento psychologist Nancy Kalish, Ph D. Once you start dating, it’s easy to start thinking that the world revolves around this girl. Remember, the reason she gave you for the breakup may not be the true reason. This goes beyond the (hopefully) obvious steps of bathing and using deodorant, which are important. That way you at least get a clue from the tone of her voice.You may think you have all the answers, Mr Worldly Wise, but remember that anything you can do I can make into an 18-day argument that you do not yet have the life experience to deal with.Don't expect too much Older dudes sometimes complain (to me at least) that the older women they know are too sedentary and set in their ways. So the mother will be convinced this has wedding bells written all over it. Remember, the amount of time she’s been on her own is through choice So if she’s with you it’s because she wants you, not because she needs you.