And you don't need classical "good-looks" by any stretch of the imagination.
You just gotta have a fresh style, be well groomed, and sort out any body-language issues you may have. I hang out with old people, young people, women, married guys, guys who suck with women, etc... However, when you are actively trying to pick-up women out at 21 establishments it pays to go with a buddy or two who will help you in your quest. So you should go out with at least one friend if not 2 or 3. You want these to be guys you like, and can have fun with.
Most of them will be single, many will be good-looking, and they will be in all states of drunkenness. Here are 5 big things you can do to be more successful with bringing home women from bars and clubs...
Even better, a decent percentage of these girls will be open to going home with you if you know what you are doing! If you want to get better at meeting women at bars/clubs it's important to enjoy going out, without worrying about trying to bring somebody home.
So many guys focus all their energy on picking up women when they go out, that they forget to have a good time.
They think that they NEED to put all this effort into picking up women, and this is pretty much the definition of being a desperate dude.
I'll explain how to meet them without sweating them in a sec.
I cannot emphasize enough the importance of dressing well, and having your look together.
If you are an older guy in a fancy suit they might not be digging your style at the young scenester bar. There are lots of attractive women at bars that want to hook up with you. Girls from bars/clubs are much more likely to flake on you than girls you meet under other circumstances.
The women there are more interested in the metro sexual guys with beards and scarves. If you meet a girl you like at a bar try to keep the interaction going.
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