Now that he was in the last semester of high school and just turned eighteen, Bradley was suddenly a girl magnet.He was dating several girls at any given time, and even stacked dates on the same day.
The less confident (and insecure) you feel, the more fearful you’ll be and will feel the need to control things which in turn will make him not feel like coming back.
For years he had been shy and introverted, girls seemed to terrify him whenever they were in close proximity.
Of course, He had relatives that did not affect him this way, but they were the exception.
But all this was before his senior year in high school.
They are not trying to push you away Listen for words like “remain friends”, “I don’t want us to hate each other”, “whatever happens”, “I only wish the best for you”, “You’re a special guy/woman, any person would be lucky to have you”, etc.
These are words common with exs who want to remain “friendly” but not looking to get back together and those looking for closure and getting ready to move on.
The old relationship didn’t have a strong enough foundation that’s why it broke down.
It makes no sense trying to rebuild on a weak/faulty foundation however beautiful, and nice and cozy the inside was. The more centered, confident and positive your vibe the more relaxed and attractive you’re to him.
All this said, always remember until you’ve had the “let’s get back together” talk, you’re officially not back together. Just make sure you’re not repeating past mistakes but creating new pleasant memories.