Does he expect you to give him his quiet space until he finishes the conversation?
#3 He behaves very awkwardly when he’s around you and bumps into her or gets her phone call.
[Read: How to make a guy jealous and get his attention] Does he ever say that he doesn’t want to keep in touch with his ex, but his ex girlfriend is the one who calls all the time? Does he ever say she still needs him for emotional support? If your boyfriend wants to stay friends with his ex even when you tell him that it bothers you, it’s obvious that he wants the cake and wants to eat it too. If your boyfriend and his ex have shared a relationship where the love and excitement slowly frizzled away, or if they’re completely platonic towards each other, it may be acceptable.
If your boyfriend thinks nothing of his ex, he should have no problems meeting his ex with you in his arms.
Have you ever asked your boyfriend about why he even stays in touch with his ex girlfriend?
Does he say he values her as a friend or does he like her for the person she is? If he thinks she’s so great, why on earth would he have broken up with her?
All they need is a tiny spark to take the plunge into an affair.
If your boyfriend’s very friendly with his ex, yes, he may have an affair with her.
Meet his ex a few times and see if you like the person.
If you can’t sense any awkwardness in the air, perhaps they’ve turned into good friends after all.
As much as your boyfriend may convince you otherwise, there’s just no reason why exes have to stay friends or keep in touch with each other often.
They broke up because of their incompatibilities, so what’s the point in staying friends anymore?
Almost all the time, exes have a way of squirming into a new relationship and messing it up.