No matter what age you are, you do deserve to be happy, and have a great man by your side.
I’d really appreciate comments about whether you are experiencing any of these same issues, or whether your experience of dating in mid-life has been different.
I’m going to use this article today to raise a few of the common issues that these women have been facing, and try to help you get some perspective on how to work through these.
We have all heard about how easy it is for a man to start dating in his fifties and how there are plenty of women to choose from. Early 30’s and never been married – these women must have “daddy issues”.
Their desire to be with men 15-20 years their senior means they are looking for someone to take care of them both financially and personally.
They know who they are and why their marriage failed and are looking for pure companionship.
They probably won’t be in “awe” of you and hang on your every word.
They will want to grow old with you and have an age appropriate relationship with you.
From my experience there are few men who are looking to date their contemporaries.
Yes they do want you to help raise their kids and do it all over again. If you have money, well that just makes you more attractive. Women in their 50’s – these women are your age and there are many available in this group.
(yes I do fall into this category) Chances are good that these women have older kids who are well on their way and don’t really want your input on their children.
We have been divorced for 2 years and although it saddens me that my family has been broken apart, I am happy that my ex and I have have managed to be civil enough to make it okay for the kids.
Here is what I have found: For single men the options are plentiful. It seems that the breakdown of available women fall into the following categories: 1.
Be cautious men, these women are looking for you to do it all over again and that means house and children.