No over the top displays of flowers, champagne, fancy dinners, expensive venues, trips or anything that romantic couples do.
What I learned was that lying or sneaking requires a tremendous amount of energy, and can really add some stress to your life making the multiple dating partners not near as much fun as should be.
If you get caught, especially by a girl that likes you, then all hell is going to break loose.
When you are first meeting and dating girls, you never tell them you want an exclusive relationship.
If the topic comes up, you simply say something like, “Someday I hope to find the perfect girl, but for now, I am just dating and deciding what I want in my life”.
It also makes you look weaker than the man that already is dating lots of women and doesn’t want to change. In our wussyfied society, weaker men tend to play the “I want to be with only you” or the “you had better not see anyone else” card WAY too soon.
It removes all of the fun drama, challenge and thrill of the chase that girls love in seducing and winning a man. So when I am first meeting girls I have told them, “I am not really looking for a relationship. Right comes along.” The key to making this work is the timing.When I first started learning the psychology behind attraction, I never really thought a man could date multiple women without keeping it a secret from the women.I truly believed you had to “sneak” or lie about the other women.But very few have the emotional ability to sleep with several men repeatedly over a long period of time. I do caution you though, if you do not want to be in an exclusive relationship and what to keep dating multiple women, you have to let her walk away. CULVER CITY, CA – JANUARY 09: Actors Amber Heard (L) and Johnny Depp attend The Art of Elysium 2016 HEAVEN Gala presented by Vivienne Westwood & Andreas Kronthaler at 3LABS on January 9, 2016 in Culver City, California.She might also use the “I am going to date other men…” to try to get you to stop dating other women. (Photo by Alison Buck/Getty Images) If you really want the fun of dating multiple women, only date bisexual women.You know, the guy that already has girls that like him? It has to be natural to you, like it is no big deal and just something you do.