You frequently drink too much in public, embarrass me with your obnoxious behavior, and then expect me to take care of you as you vomit through the night.From now on, I refuse to help you in any way when you’re drunk, nor will I remain in your presence.
First, we want to encourage someone we love to escape the deadly trap of sin.
Vengeance is not ours to give, so punishment is not our purpose.
Second, we want to reconcile the broken relationship and eventually restore trust.
While we cannot compel another person to join us in repairing the breech, we can invite him or her.
Furthermore, I want to support your career, but your public intoxication embarrasses me.
Therefore, you will have to attend company functions without me.
This is not about getting even; it’s a matter of integrity.
Furthermore, the goal of tough love is to allow the wayward spouse to suffer the consequences of sin instead of bearing them on their behalf.
Similarly, we must be willing to stand firmly against sin.
However, as women especially have discovered, expressing anger or sorrow is not enough.
Therefore, you should sleep in the guest room as long as you keep viewing porn.