Pay attention to his body language, noting whether the behavior differs from how your boyfriend normally responds, recommends counselor Elly Prior in the article “Signs of Infidelity" on her website For example, if your guy appears eager to look at everything in the room except you, and he normally makes eye contact, avoiding that eye contact with you may be a sign of emotional discomfort. Concealing his hands or using his hands to cover his mouth may signal your boyfriend’s guilt.
The opposite is also true depending on WHY he’s seeing another woman.
If he suddenly begins getting jealous, asking you a lot of questions, accusing you of cheating on him, it’s normally a sign he wants out of the relationship. If he’s seeing other women because he wants out he might begin to accuse you or exonerate his actions by suddenly turning everything bad on you.
He’ll start carrying his phone around more, the battery will drain quicker, and if he’s smart he won’t be just putting it anywhere.
A new-found interest in his computer might also throw up a red flag like staying up late to use it and caring a little too much about maintaining it. Most red flags also appear where you’re less likely to look but again have to do with sudden changes in behavior: All those are signs his testosterone is up and I’m not entirely sure, this is just a theory, but I DO believe lots of men might be getting a boost of testosterone if they’re seeing more than one woman. He’s shameful, doesn’t want to hurt you, and feels ( or felt ) he couldn’t come to you with this problem of his fulfillment and therefore looks elsewhere out of frustration.
Sharing is considered a virtue, but if your boyfriend shares his time and attention with other girls, unfaithfulness can be a deal breaker. Remaining in a relationship with a deceitful guy may be worse because trust is essential to the stability of your relationship.
You can’t control your boyfriend’s behavior, but you can learn to recognize some of the signs that he may be dating other girls.nother way to look at this problem is to consider the two types of cheaters and THEN check for the sudden ( although sometimes subtle ) behavior changes. He’s afraid to piss you off and suddenly begins to go out of his way to make sure you’re happy.The “other” guy, maybe he wants out of the relationship, maybe he committed through words but wasn’t ready, maybe he told you this was exclusive just to tell you what you wanted to hear…Secrets seem to be appearing where there wasn’t ones before like where he’s going, what he’s doing, who he’s doing it with.If he’s given information like that before freely, without you having to ask, and now suddenly withholds it and argues with you over it, then something could be wrong.If your guy recently has come up with a multitude of reasons by telephone or text for why he can’t spend time with you in person, consider this shift in behavior a warning sign that he may be dating other girls.