The key is – does she realize it’s an area of weakness that she desires for God to change? Yet the pain or mistakes of the past should hold no control over our present and future. The Deceiver, Liar - Every marriage must be built on trust.
Make the choice together to live by His standards in your relationship. The heart of Christ seeks the best for the one they love, desiring to build up, protect, and encourage healthy, safe patterns. So what about those “little white lies” you started noticing along the way?
The lies of the world say that sex before marriage is normal, no big deal. In the story of Joseph in , we see Potiphar’s wife pursuing him with sexual advances day after day. In reality, there’s no such thing as little white lies.
She might check up on you frequently, keep close tabs, or falsely accuse you of cheating on her.
The one driven by control needs will have continual issues with whether she can “trust you.” Often, under her grasp, you may start to feel like you can hardly breathe. It’s supposed to be, that’s how you’re held tightly. The Angry, Contentious Woman – If your partner can’t control her temper before you’re married, she most certainly won’t after you’re married. No matter what our personality type, it still doesn’t give us room to plow over anyone in our pathway with cruel words and rants.
Often in the quest towards marriage and finding “the one,” something happens.
It’s easy to overlook things that may not seem that big of a deal while dating, but these things could be destructive patterns once married. There’s no reason to settle for unhealthy or harmful relationships, simply to pursue being married.You are not the one to set her free and your role is not to try to change their heart. The “Diva” generally refers to one who demands the center of attention and focus at the expense of others’ feelings.Humility, compassion, love, and respect are much more admirable characteristics than simply the externals. The Gold Digger/Big Spender - Secretive spending habits?There’s a battle over marriages today, and the enemy would love nothing more than to destroy yours before it’s hardly even begun, or to entice you into a harmful one. Today's role for a Christian woman takes many forms working together - mom, sister, wife, home maker, career women, and more.All of these relationships demand your time and attention.It’s a dangerous trap and you will always be left wondering what she’s hiding.