First, if you're not familiar with the book The Rules here is a summary of "The Rules" in the book, which you need to know to understand the satire.Or do an Google Search to search for web pages discussing this book. Learn enough to get by and look cool, though you won't need it much after you have her hooked.However, if she doesn't at least give you a blowjob by date #2, #3 at the latest, there are better investments out there.
In addition, if you buy her a fancy schmancy $50 dinner at some ritzy place, she won't be able to turn down your request for a $300 "loan" until you can "get to the cash machine." Good investment. Girls do this stare at the phone thing, makes them all anticipatory. Call her in a couple of days or if you get horny again.
Also, after sex, just roll over and go to sleep, even if she hasn't had an orgasm yet.
Harlequin Romances isn't exactly going broke selling girls books about how a guy comes into the girl's life and does something as simple as fixing her car to make her life right and sweeps her off her feet.
You would be amazed at the "mileage" you can get just by taking her car down to the shop.
You can get one of these rings for about $100 and trust me you'll get a fuck worth far more than that out of it. On one hand you don't want to use condoms, so get her on the pill ASAP.
On the other hand if she runs the birth control she might blindside you with something annoying like a kid just to hook you. If she gets pregnant, take the new "morning-after" pill for guys.
No girl is perfect, but most of them like to please a man so you can change the one(s) you have to fit your needs. Girls like to get close to their guy, and "communicate." But later, if you break up, she might try and get back at you so for crissake don't let her know anything she could use or spread to others.
Girls love the "bad boy." They hope they can "reform" him, or they're a case of point #11 above. Invent deep intimate stuff you can tell her in bed, she'll go for it.
Don't do it right away but definitely do it if she's showing reluctance on that blowjob. So make all the decisions and see how she goes for it. Wear cuffs and a leather motorcycle jacket, even if you drive a Hyundai.
If so, you can probably get this to continue in the bedroom. (Park the Hyundai somewhere else and walk to where you meet her, though.) Remember, nice guys don't get laid.
(It alters your blood type.) Almost all girls have one.