A one-sentence message probably isn’t saying enough, but you also don’t want to send a novel.Responding to a few items in a person’s profile will take somewhere between three and eight sentences; if you find yourself writing a six-paragraph missive, work that delete key.
In a word, you have to make the apps and sites a priority if you want them to work in your favor and help you to meet that special person.
In many cases, the more active you are, the more likely you are to find someone.3. Another reason why you may not be having much luck in the digital dating department is that your dating profile is empty, sparse and/or unfinished. On the flip side, if you’re wondering why dating apps and sites aren't working for you, another reason may be that your profile is way too long.
More likely to get a response: A message that is directly responsive to several things in the object of your affection’s profile.
So you’ve caught on that “hey wuzz up” is generally understood to be an unoriginal message. However, copying and pasting some bizarre, rambling message isn’t going to trick someone into thinking you wrote all of that for them.
So instead of stating the obvious (“you look like a small child and I enjoy sexing small children”), point to what it was that attracted you to their personality (or at least the fragment of their personality that they put on the internet).
Oh and just to be clear: Commenting on how a woman could be your Nubian queen or your sweet Oriental flower is not substantive.
We know you’re trying to be “random” or “funny” with your ridiculous message about getting married / having babies / getting divorced / giraffes / or whatever other inappropriate thing you are messaging to dozens of people at once. It also doesn’t trick anyone (other than the slowest people on the internet) into thinking you wrote that totally nonsensical message just for us.
Funny is good, but if you are not actually funny, don’t strain anything trying to be.
However, when you’re truly serious and interested in finding someone special and approach this kind of dating with a positive outlook, you’re far more likely to yield positive results going forward.
Online dating: It is not that hard, and yet so many people make it so hard.
Straightforward and nice is infinitely better than trying to be funny and failing miserably. There are lots of reasons why someone might not message you back. Now have patience, or set your sights on one of the 10,000 other single people in your area.