A woman’s attraction system is triggered by much different things than a man’s.
Women are also attracted to indicators that their genes would survive… Here’s how the excellent sexual evolutionary biology book, “It’s Not You, It’s Biology” explains it: In any species that survives by cooperation, stuff is gotten through social power.
but when they say “shy” they probably mean the strong silent type of guy, not the nervous socially awkward type like I was.
In this article, I’m going to provide you with key pointers to getting the relationship you want.
What would I even do with a girlfriend if I had one?
So for years, I watched from the sidelines as the girls I liked went out with the more popular and confident guys.
And the fat stores around the hips are used in the later stages of pregnancy, allowing a woman to survive to have the baby and breastfeed it in our past when food was scarce.
This male desire for youth, health and fertility is also why women have the instinct of adornment.
Shy women usually don’t have the same problems us guys do.
I talked about this in my video on social anxiety and dating.
People meet each other in many different places, in many different ways. Now I live near a downtown university, which means there’s a seemingly endless stream of cute girls walking down the street whenever I step outside. Start thinking about where you can meet the girl who is right for you. So clearly, just being in a situation where you’re NEAR a lot of girls is not going to get you a girlfriend. Here’s how reality actually works: “Being yourself” is not going to get you a girlfriend. Depressed, insecure about how I looked, little sense of fashion, and unable to even look a cute woman in the eyes for more than 1 second.
In fact, one of my reasons for writing this article is to bust a lot of the MYTHS that some dating advice or so-called “pick up” coaches are spreading. I even had an apartment a couple blocks away from one of the main nightlife areas in the city. If you live in a more suburban area outside the city, then go to a nearby shopping mall, bookstore or a busy coffee shop. The problem with meeting girls at nightclubs or even going to one of those”single people events” is that there’s a The first step to finding a girlfriend is to put yourself into situations where you can meet many different girls that have a high chance of being compatible with you. Well-meaning people may tell shy guys that you just need to “be yourself” and eventually some girl will fall in love with you. I had to change myself and my behavior before my dating results changed.
The attention of the tribe is a kind of psychic territory where we harvest the resources we cooperative apes need to survive.