” 7)They are surrounded by admirers Narcissists need affirmation.
Dr Orner says that the experience of narcissism is one of "emptiness" and so a narcissistic person needs to surround themself with the metaphoric “mirror”: a group of people willing to inflate their feelings of superiority.
Does he tell you constantly that you "make him feel" good? Next thing, he may tell you that you "make" him feel bad, or that you make him feel violent, or that you "provoke" him. Does he beat or slap you or otherwise mistreats you physically?
Does he then switch to being saccharine and "loving", apologizes profusely and buys you gifts? It comprises an unequivocal series of subtle but discernible warning signs.
4)Their talent Someone with an extreme talent, in music or acting for example, can have strong narcissistic tendencies: not entirely unsurprising if they are constantly surrounded by admiring fans.
Dr Orner also suggests that, while a narcissistic may be able to produce emotion in others through their brilliant work, they could find it difficult to express feeling for other people.
5)A sense of entitlement Do they take everything for granted, and expect their needs to be met without question?
Unlike the "normal" sense of entitlement, where high self-esteem is based on real accomplishments, narcissists are inclined to crave praise even when they don’t deserve the attention.Does he go through your personal belongings while waiting for you to get ready?Does he text or phone you multiply and incessantly and insist to know where you are or where you have been at all times?Does he call you names, harasses, or ridicules you? Does he like hurting you physically or finds it amusing?Is he wildly unrealistic in his expectations from you, from himself, from the budding relationship, and from life in general? Does he abuse you verbally does he curse you, demeans you, calls you ugly or inappropriately diminutive names, or persistently criticizes you?Is his language vile and infused with expletives, threats, and hostility? Does he push you to marry him having dated you only twice?