He’s saying that since the people who are contacting him put in the effort to contact him, he should respond to them.I get that idea and if he were actively looking to meet new people I could even agree…but if he’s only logging in to respond to new emails why not ?I had touched on a similar topic last year in my post my boyfriend has kept his online dating profile active.
If you think this is annoying I definitely understand but I would still encourage tact when you try to resolve this issue.
What You Do The one thing you shouldn’t do is verbally attack the guy or start throwing out ultimatums.
If he’s hesitating because he’s concerned about commitment, this approach could scare him off.
In some cases, this could cause what he saw as a healthy, budding relationship to end abruptly.
If this sounds like your situation, you’re not alone.
For the last few months this has been by far the question I’ve received most often from readers.
It’s especially bothersome if his actions suggest exclusivity even if he hasn’t declared so in words…and yet it is still acceptable in my mind for him to keep his profile up, even in this case.
If you have agreed to be exclusive, things are easy: you just need to ask him to take it down!
With that in mind I wanted to review one of the recent emails I’ve received from a reader and offer some additional advice for this problem.